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Thursday, July 11, 2013

Life Happens...

I have such good intentions of blogging more often but life happens & then I figure, "Who is really interested in reading more often anyway?" :)

#1244 ~ laughter

It's an amazing morning here thus far with the outside temperature on the computer registering 57 degrees. Up until late Tuesday night, the air-conditioning in our home had remained DISABLED as the majority of us are not inclined to frigid temperatures. (We are also attempting to cut down on energy costs.) Finally when the living room thermostat reached 94 degrees, we decided to turn it on in order to help us sleep better. Last night, it went back OFF! :) In all actuality, all four of us prefer to having the windows open & waking to fresh air, singing birds & sunshine streaming down on us. :) Mallary's infamous retort is always, "They didn't have air in the 1800's & we don't need air now!" I'm grateful for the simplicity of our girls. ♥

#1222 ~ daughters who serve

The company that Kyle works for was on vacation shut-down starting June 28th through July 8th, so us girls had our favorite guy all to ourselves for ten days straight. *Bliss* ♥ In the past the plant closed for two weeks every summer but due to production demands, that time frame has been shortened.  Typically we do things & go places & spend money & fill our days but this year we chose not to for several reasons. It was a tough decision that took much discipline yet when it was all said & done, we were grateful. ♥

#1250 ~ nieces who fit right in

We:
*stayed HOME
*slept in the tent in the backyard (ugh)
*cut wood for the firepit
*swam in the pool
*worked in the garden
*played LOTS of Scrabble & Yahtzee
*sat around the firepit most every night
*ate s'mores
*read our Bibles
*discussed Scriptures
*shared what God is teaching us & how He is working in our lives
*made breakfast together
*went for walks
*took in a baseball game with fireworks following
*sat under the shade tree
*cross-stitched
*colored
*read the biography of Corrie Ten Boom aloud
*drank LOTS of coffee ♥
*shared supper one evening with friends
*enjoyed a 4th of July parade with Marci's family & another friend & her family ♥
*found contentment in SIMPLE life... ♥

#1251 ~ a sister, my sister who blesses my day

Honestly, I loved every moment of it all except for...sleeping in the tent. Ugh. I'm all for being festive & I love the "idea" of it but really... Roosters crowing at 4:45 a.m. (yes ours) & (yes the ones I asked for), dogs barking (from all different directions), car alarms going off in the near distance, trucks zooming by (at two in the morning), bulls bellowing (longing for the ladies across the fence for don't you know...it's always better on the other side), crows cawing, cats scratching to get in, frogs singing... I like sleep & I like laying as close to my man as I can when I bed down for the night & neither of those things really happened. I mean, how do you lay as close as you can when you're sleeping on ground as hard as cement, angled down hill & have six layers of blankets on you?!? And how does one sleep with so many random ongoing noises!?! We slept in the beloved tent five or six of the nights & by the end, I'd had enough tent to last me...until they decide to put it up again. My word for the year is "savor" so I will purpose to "savor" even those unrestful, uncomfortable, make-me-cranky nights in the tent, for one day our girlies will no longer be home to make such memories. ♥

Pool maintenance man that I love so much...♥

Beyond thankful for their willingness to help out & work hard...♥

Nearly the death of me...

Love time together in the pool...♥

Never too big...♥

Love the attire...♥

Preparing for the evening firepit...♥

Love watching them work together...♥


Fixing up a nearly broken toe...♥

Baseball fun with great friends...♥

Celebrating FREEDOM...♥



Love this little man... ♥
Tuck riding with his daddy in the firetruck at the parade...♥

MaKayla loves the blessing of these two lives...♥

#1247 ~ children of friends

Taco salads under the shade tree...♥
Cross stitching...♥

Reading Corrie Ten Boom of an afternoon...
Yes, I am aware of all the "pepper" in my hair...
Kyle loves it...♥
Intently concentrating...♥

Firepit food...♥

Yahtzee...♥

Scrabble & cookies...♥

The best BBQ chicken you will EVER eat...♥
Grilled by hands I love...♥

Sisters...♥

Thankful...♥

Three lives that bless me EVERY day...♥

War declared...


They DO know better...♥

Down ya' go...♥

Victory is won!!!

Not having Kyle around has been a MAJOR adjustment & although we are somewhat back into a routine this week has been a busy one already with Savannah & Ciera spending the day with us Tuesday & Jordan joining us for a bit that evening. Having Jordan here resulted in me/us getting to see Marci/Mark which I/we always love & a trip to the Frosty for a yummy but not-so-healthy twist ice cream cone. Yesterday morning MaKayla had a commitment & since we were so close & couldn't pass up the opportunity, Mal & I went & visited Julie & Bryant. MaKayla joined us later & gave Julie a pedicure & fresh paint & design on her toes. Of course we stayed longer than planned so that everyone could get their turn in on snuggling Bryant. (I got the short end of the stick as Mal is a baby hog...and then MaKayla thought she HAD to HAVE her turn.) It is always so good to sit & chat with Julie. We think alike in so many areas & greatly enjoy any time we get to spend together. Last night was Worship Team practice for everyone but me (not musically inclined AT ALL), so I was blessed to take a good walk & enjoy a refreshing visit with Dawn. Always, always a blessing to my heart. ♥ Today is laundry, regroup, mow the yard & be with my girls.



LOVE...♥
#1252 ~ scent of baby

Sorry for all the pictures yet I know some of you LOVE them so here-ya-go. :)

Thanks for sharing life with us. We love each of you & pray your day is abundantly blessed. ♥

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; 
all who follow His precepts have good understanding.
To Him belongs eternal praise.
~Psalm 111:10~


Friday, June 28, 2013

Never Would We Have Dreamed...

The house is quiet.
By 6:30 this morning, I remained the only one at home.
It is a beautiful start to the day...
The sun is shining...
With only a few clouds in the sky...
Light cool breezes move the curtains...
Roosters crow...
Crows caw...
Birds sing...

The bed is made.
The dishes are done.
The bathroom has been cleaned.

Laundry awaits.
The yard, wet with dew, needs mowed.
A trip to the grocery store is on the afternoon schedule.

My mind scrolls back...
22 years ago today...

The dress was ready...
I was excited...
Wedding preparations were in full swing...

22 years ago today, I couldn't wait for "tomorrow" to arrive...
For "tomorrow" would be the first day of together forever...

As we took a family walk last night, I couldn't help but think...
22 years ago we never would have dreamed that we would be where we are...
Living where we're living...
Doing what we're doing...
Loving more than we ever could possibly imagine...
Nurturing two beautiful, healthy girls...

Never would we have dreamed that...
Kyle would face the health struggles that he has...
We would walk alongside friends laying babies to rest all-too-soon...
Close family members would taste the sting of cancer...

Never would we have dreamed...
We would homeschool our children...
Kyle would use his love for music to lead people to the Throne of Grace...
We would dwell in the home that Grandpa Mack built with his own hands...

Never would we have dreamed that...
The nieces who were flower girls would be all grown up...
The "bottom side" of the vows we took (worse, sickness, poorer...) we would eventually face...
(We, like everyone else, only focused on the "upside"...the better, health, richer... No thought is given to facing or working through the "bottom side"...)

Never would we have dreamed...this life.

Twenty-two years ago today, I couldn't wait to marry my very best friend. ♥

Things were simple then...
On the day of the wedding, I fixed my own hair, put on my own make-up & painted my own nails.
For flowers, we used tuberous begonias that Mom had planted herself.
We got married in my home church.
We had a simple cake & punch reception in the basement of that church.
Close friends.
Immediate family.
No food.
No dance.
Simple.

For Kyle's bachelor party he & Tom went to World's of Fun where Tom told every ride attendant why they were there which gained them access to the front of the line...every time. Beth & I shared dinner together on the "porch" of a favorite Mexican restaurant that we both loved.

No parties...
No hoopla...
No drama...

Never would we have dreamed...

As soon as the cake had been cut & pictures had been taken & clothes had been changed, Kyle & I were off...
A simple honeymoon, but so much fun.
The start of forever...

Little did we know what lie ahead...

Never would we have dreamed...

Little did we know that 22 years ago today that same friend that went with Kyle to World's of Fun would be recovering from open heart surgery...
Not just a Best Man...
But a Best Friend...

Little did we know that 22 years ago today that same friend that shared dinner on "the porch" with me that evening would be nurturing her husband back to health after nearly losing him to death...
Not just a wife...
But a Bestie...

Never would we have dreamed...

The past three weeks have been nothing short of crazy yet nothing less than miraculous.
I long to share with you how God has so intimately & marvelously worked yet I first want to get the okay from Tom & Beth before I expound...

22 years ago...

Never would we have dreamed how quickly the years would slip away yet how through life's circumstances, God would draw us so much closer to Himself. Besides my salvation in Christ, Kyle is the greatest gift of my life & I suspect that if we're still here in 22 years, we, at this point, could never begin to dream all that God wants to work in us & through us...

June 28th, 1991 ~ Farrens/O'Riley Wedding Rehearsal


Thursday, June 13, 2013

Sobering...

I write this evening's post with a heart of prayer & anticipation...


To say that it has been a sobering week would be an understatement, especially from Kyle's perspective. Kyle's bestie (I'm not sure men would appreciate that terminology like women do however I'm going to use it anyway) Tom, fell ill last week. These two men have been life long friends from boyhood until now...40somethings...
Grade school...
High school...
Football...
(Kyle the quarterback; Tom the center... MaKayla said Tom once told her, "Your dad played quarterback & I played center. He had his hands between my legs all the time..." :) Boys will be boys...)
Band...
FFA...
Bachelor outings...
Best Men...
Brothers-in-Christ...
Children born...
Daughters graduated...
Good times...
Tough times...
Most all times in between...


Kyle spent a great deal of time at Tom's house growing up...thinking of him as a brother he didn't have & seeing his parent's as an integral portion of who he is today. He still says Tom's Mom, Lois makes the best fried cheeseburgers & laughs over crazy pranks they pulled on Tom's brother, Joe. They were & continue to be family...


Subsequently, Tom's wife Beth & I have been besties over the years as well. And in turn, our children have grown up together & formed special friendships.


By Sunday evening it was concluded that Tom had suffered a heart attack & by Monday mid-morning tests revealed that all arteries in Tom's heart were 95-100% blocked. After Kyle was able to get in touch with Beth, he called me...
Broken...
Distraught...
Shocked...
Concerned...
Overcome with emotion...

As we drove to the hospital, Kyle was quiet...processing...preparing...

We visited...
They embraced...
Tears were shed...
Hearts were united...
Prayers were offered...

By the grace of God & His divine hand of protection, the One who has Tom's days numbered, had angels hovering over him...guarding his life...preserving his heart (literally)...securing his health...

We are beyond grateful...
We give Him praise...
We stand in awe of His goodness...

For Tom & Beth, the week has been full of tests & procedures, waiting & resting, praying & believing & waiting some more. Kyle received the call this evening from Beth that open heart surgery has been confirmed for tomorrow...

Sobering...

The wait is over...
The time has come...
For such a time as this...

Some situations in life are situations we would rather not face yet some situations are divine reality checks reminding us of the fragility of life & compelling us to cherish the ones we love more than we ever have before.

For those of you who are intercessors, our family asks that you cover Tom, Beth & their children (Morgan, Sylvia, Alex & Zoe), Tom's parent's Richard & Lois as well as the doctors, surgeons & nurses who will be administering & overseeing Tom's care in the next hours & days.


Thank you to those who are willing to take the time & pray...

Jesus looked at them and said, 
“With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”
Matthew 19:26


Tuesday, June 11, 2013

So Worth It...

It's hard to believe that nearly three weeks have passed since I last blogged yet in the days that have passed, life has been full to overflowing. 

It's been a busy morning thus far...
I reluctantly sent Kyle off to work...
The cats have been nourished...


Zeke has been let out to run & play (after being couped up for several days)...


Chickens have been fed...
With fresh water to hydrate their growing bodies...


Harrington & his "brood" have a filled pool to splash & play in...


Shoes have been straightened...
Yesterday's dishes put away...
All before 7:00 a.m....

These sweet daisies sit at my kitchen sink...


Picked from along the roadside from MaKayla & Mal on their way home yesterday...
Thoughtful & warming to my heart...♥

Egg cartons are collecting from sweet friends...


Our favorite rooster that was supposed to be a hen...
(We are finding several of those...)
 

Back to Harrington (Harriet if "it" is a girl...) for a moment...
This is the goose that came to us lame at this size...


He/she is now this size...



He/she (we have no idea what gender "it" is) "hissed" at me for the first time this morning which will be much to MaKayla's dismay when I relay the news to her. For the real inside scoop, the friends that she works for have a goose that MaKayla isn't fond of is scared of. It chases her & hisses at her & totally unnerves her so from the very get-go when we started discussing the idea of chickens, she made it very plain, "Chickens & ducks are perfectly fine but we ARE NOT getting a goose... End of story." At least her story. :) For we now have a goose & she is the one that nurtured & helped to bring strength & healing to his/her legs. It seems to get a little more temperamental with each day that passes so...

Today marks the first day in several that the girls & I are able to be home with no major agenda besides getting the yard mowed & catching up on a few things that need attention around here. Last week was Vacation Bible School at our church which brought five days of up & out of the house a little after seven. It was a great week full of singing, dancing, teaching, helping prepare, serve & clean up meals, spending time in fellowship with cherished friends in Christ, participating in skits, chasing after kids, corralling bodies full of energy (if only I could have bottled some of that up...) & loving, nurturing & investing in precious little lives.








I would humbly & honestly admit that I wasn't "eager" for the week but God truly blessed my heart beyond measure in those five days of serving. On top of that, the reality of seeing MaKayla & Mal share, extend & implement their gifts in such a setting was a rich gift that I will tuck away & reflect on for a very long time.

You see, God had been faithfully preparing my heart for such a week...
And although I couldn't at all understand the refining, pruning & sifting He was allowing over the past three to four weeks, I now see that He had much work to do in me through that difficult month. 
It. Was. Tough.
Putting it lightly, I wanted to give up...
My family wanted to send me away (I wasn't pleasant to live with...)
(Don't ask them, they might share the gory details...)
Instead of the days of VBS being a dread, it turned out to be a beautiful blessing...
God had layers of stripping to do in order for my heart to serve in away that honored Him & now being on the other side of it, the pain & struggle was so worth it.

As I sat one morning a few weeks back desperate for wisdom, with my Bible open, my journal close & my pen in hand, He so lovingly whispered this verse to my aching heart...
     
     Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider Him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.
     In your struggle against sin, you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. And you have forgotten that word of encouragement that addresses you as sons:
"My son, do not make light of the Lord's discipline, 
and do lose heart when He rebukes you, 
because the Lord disciplines those He loves, 
and He punishes everyone He accepts as a son."
     Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by His father? If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live! Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in His holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.
     Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees. "Make level paths for your feet," so that the lame may not be disabled, but rather healed.
~Hebrews 12:1-13

I needed discipline & God was faithful...

It promises to be a beautiful day in the country...
No matter where you are or what you're doing, may your day be filled with joy, peace & the love of Jesus...


Warm hugs from our home to yours...♥